I'm using VMWare Fusion 8.5.7 and I won't be upgrading. I have an XP VM that I suspended, shut down the Mac, moved to a different network, rebooted the Mac, and un-suspended the VM. It was very slow so I shut down Windows and it has been stuck on "Closing network connections" for more than a day. Activity Monitor shows the VMWare-VMX process with varying CPU utilization so I figure it's doing something. On the "Virtual Machine" menu, pressing the option key enables "Shutting down...". When I press that it shows the "power off" dialog. Pressing "power off" doesn't do anything, I've tried 100 times.
What are my options? Force quit VMWare from the OS? What will that do to the VM? Are there any other options?