Friends, I have had some problem like You. You probably have seen this (or similar, legacy) help info.
Use Multiple Monitors for One Virtual Machine
In reference there is tip to access Full screen mode and then select Cycle Multiple Monitors.
As I see now, I have no such button but...
In Edit > Preferences > Hot Keys you could find <hot key combo> + M entry.
If you use Use Multiple Monitors for One Virtual Machine all but in 3rd step you will activate layout selector with shortcut mentioned above. And see this:
Then, You could select which one you like. (yes, I have 3 monitors in portrait orientation ).
Probably some VMware Team should fix that "disappearing" option in Edit menu.
Have a good day.